FRIEND OR "friend"???

humm..recently, lots of things happen to me and honestly speaking, i'm very grateful as these things have opened my eyes about my friends friends who are really friends and friends who are just friend..humm.. and at this point of time, suddenly my mind is struck by this sentient issue and i think the most suitable place to pour my heart about this issue is by blogging. i try to keep it very inexact as possible as i don't want to hurt further those who are hurt by me..hehhe.. what makes them real friends for me?

• A friend ALWAYS comes to the aid of a friend in need.
• A real friend ALWAYS defend one another.
• Real friends ALWAYS welcome and may even impose on one another at inconvenient times. they do not leave their own friends for something or someone else.
• Real friends do not take advantage on one another. They are friends for what they are. Not because they want something from one another or use one another to achieve something that they want..
• Real friends support each other for whatever decision that one may take without even questioning or criticizing them for the way they choose to live their own lives..
• Real friends do not abandoned each other when they face difficulties or when they face happiness..

emm..i believe these describe what constitute real friends to me.. what makes the just friends for me?

• They are there with you when you are happy but sometimes they fail to present themselves when you are sad n whatever excuses that they may give you the real reason will only be because, they do not want to share the hard time with you.
• They tried very hard to be supportive for you but in the end they fail to do so just by supporting you to make the wrong decision in your life..they may not realize it but the truth is the want you to crash and burn by your own decision..
• They try very hard for keeping you from knowing about the good things that happen in their life maybe because they feel that they do not want to disturb you.but the real truth is that, they want to keep the happiness for just themselves and they do not even want to share it with you.so don't bother asking..heheh..but the weird thing is, they want to know every single good thing that happens in your life. you just can't keep it as a secret from them because, if they know about these "secrets", you will be "over"..hahhaha
• They befriend with you because they want something from you. if it is not a tangible thing it may be because of the association. we call it friends with benefits..who knows?only God knows.

throughout my 22 years of living in this world, i have come to learn that we can have many friends but to choose real friends from the friends that we have is a difficult task to do, because it takes us maybe a lifetime to discover it..but, blimey, it can be done..with just a simple incident you can know who you can trust, n who are not. who you can share your secrets with n who can't you, who will always be by your side through good and bad times n who will leave you if u r on the unfavorable sides of things. you can tell by yourself n few repeated events will only provide you some support of your thoughts about them..but you, yourself can really tell who are your friends and who are just your friends.. heheh..what do you think? do u agree with me?